10 Things To Tell Your Younger Self: Answers To The Questions Everyone Is Asking
Okay, so imagine this. You’re sitting across from a mini-you. A much younger, slightly bewildered version of yourself. They’ve got a million questions. Mostly about stuff that feels super important right now, but in hindsight, not so much. Here are some answers to those burning queries. The kind of things you wish you’d known, sprinkled with a little truth serum and a dash of “I told you so” (but in a nice way).
1. Does this outfit really make me look fat?
Listen, kiddo. That particular outfit? Probably not. The bigger question is: who cares? Seriously. In ten years, you won’t remember this outfit. You’ll remember the fun you had, the laughs, maybe that slightly embarrassing karaoke performance. Focus on comfort and feeling good. The rest is just noise. Unless it’s a full-on, accidental clown suit. Then maybe re-evaluate. But most of the time, you’re fine. More than fine.
2. Will I ever find true love?
Yes. And no. And maybe. Look, there isn’t one magical person who fits your life like a perfectly tailored glove. Love is messy. It’s a collaboration. It’s about finding someone you can be your weirdest self with. Someone who tolerates your questionable taste in music and laughs at your terrible jokes. It’s not a fairy tale ending. It’s a work in progress. And that’s way more exciting, trust me.
3. Should I get bangs?
Oh, the bangs question. A rite of passage for so many. Here’s the unfiltered truth: bangs are a commitment. They need styling. They get oily. They might poke you in the eye. If you’re feeling brave, go for it. But be prepared for the upkeep. Maybe try clip-ins first. A low-stakes bangs experiment. That’s the advanced strategy.
4. Is it okay to eat pizza for breakfast?
Is it okay to breathe? Yes. Yes, it is. Pizza for breakfast is not a crime. It’s a delicious rebellion. It’s fuel for your soul. Later on, you’ll hear whispers about “nutrition” and “balanced meals.” Ignore them. For now, embrace the cheesy goodness. Your younger self will thank you for the delicious memories.
5. What’s the secret to being popular?
Here’s a secret: there’s no secret. Popularity is fleeting. It’s like trying to catch smoke. The people who truly matter will like you for who you are, not who you pretend to be. Be kind. Be genuine. Be the person who helps others. That’s way cooler than being the loudest person in the room. And it lasts a lot longer than a fleeting trend.
6. Will I ever be good at math?
Math can be a beast. For some, it clicks. For others, it’s a foreign language. If it’s not your jam, that’s okay. You don’t need to be a mathematician to live a fulfilling life. Focus on the things you are good at. Your talents lie elsewhere. And hey, there’s always a calculator. Or a friend who’s good at math. Teamwork makes the dream work, even in algebra.
7. Should I be worried about what everyone else thinks?
Short answer: no. Long answer: still no. People will have opinions. They’ll judge. They’ll talk. It’s human nature. But their opinions are a reflection of them, not you. Your job is to live your life authentically. Don’t let the fear of judgment hold you back. Be bold. Be brave. Be unapologetically you. It’s a game-changer.
8. Is it weird to still like cartoons?
Weird? Absolutely not. It’s awesome. Cartoons are pure joy. They’re escapism. They’re often incredibly smart and well-written. Don’t let anyone tell you that you’re “too old” for something that brings you happiness. Your inner child deserves some fun. And maybe a bowl of sugary cereal while you’re at it. Never stop playing.
9. Will I ever get used to my nose?
Your nose. Your eyebrows. Your slightly crooked smile. These are the things that make you, YOU. They are unique. They are beautiful. In time, you’ll probably look back at old photos and think, “Huh. My nose was pretty great.” It’s all about perspective. And learning to love the quirks that make you, you. Embrace the original. It’s the best version.
10. What’s the most important thing I need to know?
This is the big one. The ultimate takeaway. The most important thing you need to know, young padawan, is this: it’s going to be okay. Seriously. There will be tough times. There will be amazing times. You’ll stumble, you’ll soar, you’ll cry, you’ll laugh until your sides hurt. But through it all, you are resilient. You are capable. And you are loved. So go out there and live your life. The adventure is just beginning.